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Evan's New Year's Interview
on January 03 2012 at 10:41 AM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Evan Joseph
Click to see a larger photo Favorites:

Cereal - Life
Vegetable - pickles
Fruit - apple
Drink - almond milk
Toy - Dinosaur Train
Show - Dinosaur Train
Game - puzzles
Book - Cars
Restaurant - McDonalds
Holiday - Halloween
Animal - flamingo
Way to spend time - with people
Friend - Quetzal Sol


If you could change your name, what would you choose?
whiney pants


What do you love about each person in our family?
Daddy - He tickles me
Mommy - She tickles me
Noelle - tickling me (can you tell he was being silly?)
Mason - gets on me and tickles me


Where would you like to go on vacation this year?
Nana and Papa's


What was your favorite thing we did last year?
Played in the backyard


Evan turned 3 in October, and has validated my feeling that 3 is harder than 2. He is extremely energetic, has a hard time focusing and listening, loves to be a daredevil, and changes his mind constantly when you ask him a question. I try to find anything he can help me do that won't drive me totally nuts, because he needs to be active or I'm in trouble. He is slowly starting to reject his nap, and I am really not looking forward to that. I got a whole year more out of him than I did Noelle, though!

Evan goes to school 2 days a week and has a great time there. He really is a smart and sweet little boy. It's hard to get too upset with him when he's being mischievous, because he is just so cute about it most of the time. He isn't trying to be defiant or "bad" usually, he is just all over the place having fun. He is learning to be a good big brother. He often gives Mason toys when he is sad or sings him a song. That is, when he isn't tackling him.
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Evan sayings
on April 28 2011 at 03:52 PM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Evan Joseph
Here are some fun things Evan is saying lately.


it's windin in my woom = the a/c is on and blowing the curtain around

pwaygog = playground

in last day = yesterday or earlier today, as in "We went to da pwaygog in last day"

it's too ficey = too spicy, used to describe anything with a strong flavor from pepperoncinis to grape juice

can I lay wif you? = he is my little cuddle bug, I hear this at least once a day

mana = banana

can I have the west of your mana? = I use part of a banana for my breakfast each morning, and he asks for the rest of it every day

oh man! = used when he is surprised by something

patterkiller = caterpillar

can you do my eardwops? = the boy has had several ear infections lately, and asks us to put his drops in


I may add to this in the next few days if I think of more! I love this age of language.
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Priorities
on March 16 2011 at 11:38 AM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Noelle Jordan, Evan Joseph
Click to see a larger photo Taking a shower while home alone with 3 kids can be tricky, which is why I only do it maybe once a week. Usually I put Mason somewhere safe from the big kids and let the other two watch a show. 9 times out of 10, I finish my shower and they are still watching a show, no problems. Today was the 1 out of 10.

I turned off the shower, and I heard the scooping of dog food. That's never good, because it means that Evan is in the dining room.

"Noelle, what is Evan doing?"

"He poured dog food in the dog's water bowl!"

"Can you please go get him out of the dining room?"

More scooping.

"Noelle?"

More scooping, and is that throwing?

"He's throwing food EVERYWHERE!"

"Go GET HIM! TACKLE HIM! LAY ON HIM! STOP HIM!"

I am dripping wet, and Mason's swing is in the bathroom with me blocking my way to a quick exit, so I'm depending on Noelle to get in there. By the time I am able, there truly is dog food everywhere. Love for Evan was not my first response, I'm sorry to say. I grabbed him and put him in his crib for a time out, then set to work cleaning up. Thankfully it was just dry dog food and easy to sweep, although the food in the water bowl had to be dumped down the disposal. What a mess! This picture only shows a tiny area, it was all over the dining room and kitchen floors.

After I got everything clean, I realized that Noelle had gotten down the remote that we use for DVD's, meaning that when she saw Evan flinging dog food everywhere, her first thought was, let me take a moment to get the remote and pause my movie so I don't miss anything. Sigh. I suppose I shouldn't expect anything different from a tv loving 5 year old. Maybe I should have had her sweep!
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Yep, I'm laughing my head off... Looks like a very powerful shop vac would have come in handy today!! Don'tcha just love little boys??

carol - March 17, 2011 08:42 am

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TV Tickets
on March 15 2011 at 01:31 PM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Noelle Jordan, Evan Joseph
TV - how much to watch, when, who gets to choose the show - is an issue in the lives of most parents. I have several friends who have banished the television altogether, and while I can see the merits of doing so, it's not for me. At least not during this stage of raising kids. We were having a little too much whining and constantly asking for shows, though, so we needed a plan.

I had read a long time ago about giving kids tickets to turn in for tv watching. They get a certain number a day or week, and when they are gone, the tv is off for the day. I finally found a printable form online and put them to use in our house. I used the tickets found here, blue for Evan and pink for Noelle. They each get two in the morning. One ticket equals one show or 30 minutes of computer time. Two tickets can be used for a movie. Any tickets left at the end of the day unused can be put towards the purchase of books. We've only had one day so far that any were left, but I hope that they take advantage of that option more in the future.

There has definitely been a little manipulation (Evan, do you want to use one of your tickets?) but overall it is working SO well. Most importantly, there has hardly been any whining at all! It's not me telling Noelle she can't watch anymore shows, there just aren't any tickets left. She is in charge of whether she uses them for tv, movies, or computer, and that control is really meaningful to her. She is finding other things to do without me having to tell her. Evan usually could not care less about shows, he might ask to watch one, but then after 10 minutes he's off playing. For Noelle, though, this is amazing. I wish I would have printed these out a long time ago!
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Wow, you come up with the most amazing parenting ideas...which I had thought of that with Andy soooo many years ago. You should really put this on FB to encourage other parents of small children.

Carol - March 16, 2011 06:36 am

I love this idea! Clara Beth would sit and watch TV all day if I'd let her, which I don't (not usually anyway...). This sounds like a great way to hand the control over to her, which hopefully will prevent arguments. Love it. And to your newest post about the dog food, I totally relate. The TV is the only way I ever manage to get a shower! I'm so glad you're blogging again :)

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Playland
on December 10 2010 at 03:27 PM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Noelle Jordan, Jaime, Evan Joseph, Mason Everett
We were quite a sight this afternoon, I'd imagine. We had a showing from 1-2, so after cleaning the house the best I could with 3 kids at home, I loaded everyone into the car, dogs included. We are in desperate need of a mini van, but until we sell the house all 3 kids are in the back seat of my car, with Noelle in the middle. Both dogs sat in the passenger seat. The dogs were dropped off at our friend Robin's house for a play date with her dog, and the kids and I headed to McDonald's.

I had sort of thought things through about this trip to McDonald's, but when it came down to it, I just didn't have enough hands to accomplish everything! I asked for our meals in bags instead of a tray, because Noelle could carry the bags. Also, I learned when Evan was a baby that a Coke cup fits nicely in the triangle-shaped handle of the car seat, so that frees up a hand as well. Mason held onto Noelle's milk bottle. I still had to hold Evan's hand, though, because it was "CHRISTMAS!" in the store and he wanted to touch everything.

Inevitably we forget something the first time we head into the play area, and this time it was straws. I got the kids set up at a table and put Noelle in charge (!) for a second while I ran out to get them, along with the extra bag of apples I ordered but didn't get.

Thankfully Mason slept the entire time, there were only a few times Evan almost escaped out the exit, and Noelle and Evan only got hit in the head by the swinging chairs they insisted on playing with one time each.

When we were done I started the assembly line of shoes and coats and blanket for Mason, and we headed out, picked up the dogs, and made our way home. The people were still at our house for the showing even though it was 2:15, which I hope might be a good sign. Evan said "I tired" and wanted to go home. Noelle never would have said such a thing! We circled the block a few times and finally we were cleared to head home. Now the boys are sleeping and I have a moment to recover from a "simple" trip to McDonalds!
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Kudo's to you! Looks like you are getting the hang of the "new normal" of three children on an excursion.

Carol - December 15, 2010 08:46 am

Don't you wish for Jetson type travel in moments like that? Or beaming. Beaming me and the gang somewhere would be so useful. I hope you guys get an offer soon!

Ariana - December 15, 2010 09:30 pm

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Evan words
on June 14 2010 at 12:28 PM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Evan Joseph
I made a list of Noelle's words at 16 months, just like my mom had done for me. Well, Evan wasn't really saying much then, so I made him one at 20 months! I started writing it out and fully expected to get maybe 25 words. I'm at 50 right now, and he seems to be adding new ones every day!

Tomorrow Evan will have tubes surgery to hopefully rid him of a series of ear infections, the most recent of which has lasted over 2 months. We've also heard that their speech can take off after clearing all that infection out, because they can hear better! We are just hopeful that he will feel better and be even more happy than he usually is.

I planned to list all his words, but since 50 is a lot I'm just putting my favorites here, especially the ones he doesn't say quite perfectly yet!

all gah = all gone
appy = happy
B = any letter he sees
baby
boo (loves to 'scare' us)
bubble
bye (said loudly to anyone leaving)
ca = car
coo = cool
daddy
dah = down
doo = dude
goggie = doggie
heeah = here
mama (I think he calls Noelle mama.)
mine
mo = more
mommy
okee = okay
opa = open
oww
pool = pull
potty
shh (said with finger to lips)
sur = sure
ucky
uh uh (when you do something he doesn't like)
vatee = water
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Sure can't wait to hear those cute words first hand. Maybe we can get him to add Grammy and PaPaw (or something that sounds like) to his vocabulary.:)

grammy - June 14, 2010 02:38 pm

His vocabulary is better than mine, not fair

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Exhibit G
on March 11 2010 at 11:47 AM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Evan Joseph
Church Office Injury Report

Date and Time: 3/10/10, 11:00 AM

Evan got behind the door and pushed his hand between the door and door jam. His arm became stuck in the crack. Vaseline was applied to get his arm to slip out of the crack. Swelling and redness to forearm. Ice pack was applied after we got his arm unstuck.



The boy is fine, thankfully! The ladies were so apologetic and concerned, but I said really, this child does this sort of thing on a daily basis, it's okay!
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I am sooo glad that Evan is OK! It is still scary isn't it! Kisses from Grammy to the boy.

Grammy - March 11, 2010 02:44 pm

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Blog About Something
on March 04 2010 at 10:57 AM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Noelle Jordan, Jaime, Evan Joseph
I got a notice from my Outlook program this morning, as I do every Thursday morning. It said "blog about something." Most Thursdays, I just dismiss it and move on with the 8,000 other things I need to do while Noelle is in school. I'm in a "getting things done" mood today, though, so here we go!

Currently Evan is talking in his crib. He's supposed to be napping. Soon he will start to cry, and I'll have to go in there and check his diaper, maybe rock him a bit, convince him to give in to sleep. He was up many times last night screaming, we aren't sure why. He's been doing pretty well with sleep lately, so this was unusual, and we are TIRED today.

Evan is into everything. I feel like all I do is divert him from one thing he shouldn't play with to another, on and on all day. Let's get off the table, Evan. It's dangerous to stand on that overturned bin, Evan. We need to keep the cover on the speaker, Evan. You can't fit behind the couch anymore, Evan, you're going to get stuck. Those are daddy's books, Evan. Leave the lamp plugged in. Don't pull the phone off the shelf! How in the world are you pushing that gate in? Be careful, you're going to break that - again! Please don't turn off the tv. You won't be able to open that closet anymore, Evan, we put a hook and eye on top! Leave Noelle alone, she's in time out. Be gentle with Nacho, please!

Noelle seems to be going through another one of her 15 year old phases. Sassy, argumentative, eye rolling, independent, high drama, and more! The other day she started to hit Evan, then Evan hit her, then she gave him a dirty look, and he gave her one back. I told her "if you don't like what Evan is doing, take a look at yourself, because he's learning it from you." I don't want to say that to myself, but I know it's true about Noelle and me also.

I'm going through a Bible Study at church called Gospel Transformation, and it's both killing me and giving me life. You have to realize what a wretch you are to understand how incredible God is. We first learned about the darkness in our hearts, now we are moving on to how God changes us, mostly through repentance. When I think of repentance, I think of embarrassment, defensiveness, excuses, apologizing for the consequences but not for my sinful self. I'm sorry that you were hurt. Not I'm sorry that I am selfish and judgmental, please forgive me and pray with me. Repentance, though, is God's key to change. It is how he has it set up to give us a new heart, and to bless us. Without true repentance, acknowledging and turning away, we will not unleash the Spirit's power to change us.

So I'm sorry that I am sassy, argumentative, eye rolling, independent, high drama, and more! Forgive me, Noelle, let's pray together for God to change mommy's heart.

Just as I predicted, Evan's started the waterworks. Here we go!
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As usual I am laughing inside as you describe what the kids are doing, or not doing as the case might be. But tonight takes the cake, Evan sounds soooo much like his Daddy at that age, I am laughing with you and praying for you. It isn't easy keeping up with a very active and inquisitive little boy. As for the rest of your blog, you always manage to make the most profound statements that make me look at my own thoughts and actions. You do have a way with words my sweet daughter in-law. God bless you as you continue your journey to become the best mom and wife God would have you be.

Carol - March 05, 2010 06:02 pm

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Evan - 15 months!
on January 18 2010 at 03:00 PM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Evan Joseph
At 15 months, Evan is 27 lbs and 32.5 inches tall. Both are 80th percentile, which doesn't concern me but will be something I keep my eye on as he had been closer to 95th. His appetite has been down for so long due to ear infections, teething, and increasing pickyness, that I'm not really surprised he isn't gaining a ton of weight. Of course there's also the fact that he's a big walker now and burning off the few calories he's eating!

So I listed 4 things about Noelle, but can I list 15 about Evan for how many months he is? I'll keep them short.

1. When he's tired, he lays his head on our shoulder and tucks in his hands.

2. He's a man of few words, mostly signing "more" and pointing at things.

3. He has said mama, dada, dog, Duncan, go, tickle, baby, down, and car. Maybe some others, but although he HAS said them, he doesn't use them often.

4. He takes one nap a day.

5. It's getting better, but he still doesn't usually sleep all night.

6. While I'm getting ready in the morning, he paces back and forth between Andy's closet door and the bedroom door, opening and closing each a few times.

7. He loves to scrunch up his face and squeeze his hands together (see picture) real tight, then let go and laugh. Andy calls it his first joke. 

8. He loves playing with Noelle

9. The foods he will eat any time are banana, yogurt, cheese, raisins, crackers, and our most recent discovery, snap peas.

10. He is smiling and laughing almost all the time, but that boy can throw a tantrum!

11. He doesn't care to watch tv yet, except for the theme songs to Noelle's shows. Loves them.

12. He will crawl up in my lap and hand me a book to read.

13. His favorite toys are things he can put in other things, like his plane with balls that you push through the top or his blocks that came in a container.

14. The boy gets hurt all. the. time! Crashing into this or that, pinching fingers, falling on his face, it never ends.

15. This boy loves his mama, and his mama loves him. Whenever he sees this picture he buries his head in my shoulder and smiles.

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Great post Jaime, I love the 15 things about the little guy. This picture of the two of you is great. Thanks

grammy - January 18, 2010 06:56 pm

LOVE this picture of you and Evan. Precious!

rebecca k - January 27, 2010 12:49 pm

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Busy Week!
on January 05 2010 at 11:03 AM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Noelle Jordan, Evan Joseph
This week we have already:
- Got the kids H1N1 boosters
- Cut Noelle's hair, first ourselves and then professionally (pics below)
- Went to the grocery store with both kids
- Switched our old tv for a new to us one
- Sent Noelle back to school (yay!)

And we still have:
- Library story time with friends
- Church dinner
- Dentist appointments for me and Noelle (unless it snows, because apparently in Nashville even the dentist closes for a snow day)
- Doctor appointments for Noelle's 4 year and Evan's 15 month well checks
- Purge purge purge toys and other miscellaneous items

I'd prefer busy to bored, but hopefully I can also find time to clean off this desk of mine and maybe even take a shower!

Noelle never lets us brush her hair, so I've been threatening for a while to cut it all off. This week, we did! Andy and I tag teamed a home cut, and while it looked "fine", I figured if we are averaging one cut every 2 years, it should be a good one. So, she got her very first professional hair cut yesterday, and she was so great!



We think she looks absolutely adorable, and she really likes it, too. And it's so easy to brush! A win all around.



I'll post about the dentist and doctor visits on Friday afternoon when they are all over!
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Looks adorable! I love the easier to brush thing, too. Where did you get it done?

Heather - January 05, 2010 10:52 am

Good old Fantastic Sam's. :)

Jaime - January 05, 2010 10:55 am

i love it!! She looks so different and of course adorable. That should make getting ready so much easier. Yeah for Fantastic Sam's...tell her that is where Grammy goes too.

Grammy - January 05, 2010 01:22 pm

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Role Reversal
on November 13 2009 at 08:47 AM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Noelle Jordan, Evan Joseph
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Very cute!

Grammy - November 13, 2009 09:26 am

Hi I was looking up my sons name on the internet and found your blog. I had to laugh at the latest post because My son is also named Evan Joseph and is now 17 months. He started climbing tables at a year and has now graduated to book cases. He is also helping with sweeping, laundry and unloading the dishwasher. Have fun with your little ones for they are a blessing from god. You have a beutiful family. Have a safe and happy holiday.

Joy Dyer - December 23, 2009 02:13 pm

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My Latest Challenge
on September 08 2009 at 11:14 AM by: Jaime Matthews
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Click to see a larger photo One day last week, I was in the garage switching a load of laundry when I heard Noelle frantically call to me, "Hey Mommy!"

When I rushed out to the living room, the image here is what I saw. Our boy had climbed up on the coffee table and was standing up holding onto the tv. This has turned into a new kind of game for him, climb up and have us get him down. Basically that means we can't leave him alone in the living room, when before he would be fine for several minutes if not longer. What are we going to do when this boy can walk?
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Adorable!

Sarah Valente - September 10, 2009 01:20 pm

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First Injury
on August 08 2009 at 08:33 PM by: Jaime Matthews
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Click to see a larger photo This little boy wanted to show off his very first broken bone. At 10 months old, Evan has fractured a bone in his left ring finger. He had pulled himself up on the couch, which is basically how he lives these days, and somehow managed to fall down in exactly the wrong way.

This happened on Tuesday - Andy thought Evan had hurt his hand or wrist, but nothing came of it that day. Wednesday and Thursday he was so incredibly moody, but a 10 month old has lots of reasons to be moody so I let it slide. But Thursday when Andy came home from work, he noticed Evan's finger was starting to swell and was a little purple.

So on Friday morning we went to the doctor, and she sent us to the hospital for an x-ray. Sure enough, it was fractured. I was kind of surprised, actually, I figured it would be just a sprain or a jammed finger. No wonder the boy has been moody!

Now we are on a strict schedule of motrin and tylenol, and we're keeping his ring finger and middle finger "buddy taped" together (see figure 1). Poor little guy! Hopefully he heals quickly, because we miss our cheerful little man.
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Poor guy! I probably wouldn't have figured that out for several days either. Babies can cry about all kinds of things, and they definitely can't tell you what's wrong! I hope he feels better really soon.

Tiana - August 09, 2009 07:59 pm

And now we know he also has HFMD. Poor baby! He is just miserable.

Jaime - August 09, 2009 08:13 pm

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Teeth.
on June 05 2009 at 04:18 PM by: Jaime Matthews
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evan **Editors note: I was beginning to think Evan might be in college by the time I got this posted, the internet and our blog were both working against me. It's been 2 days.

Our good sleeper is apparently very thrown off by teeth. Or at least that's what we're blaming his sudden shift in sleep habits on. He is currently working on teeth 3 and 4, and he is not that great of a sport about it. He is still his happy go lucky self most of the time, but when it comes time to sleep, he goes a little nuts. Evan likes to go to sleep by himself in his bed. I don't think that has changed, I just think he needs a little extra TLC and that kind of bothers him. Total man, right? So he's been waking up at night, hard to get to sleep for naps, and staying up for almost the entire day as of late.

Today, as you can see, it finally caught up to him at dinner time. Right after this picture he stirred a bit and put another carrot in his mouth, then promptly fell back to sleep half a second later. Poor little guy. After fighting us pretty hard at bedtime, he has now been down for about 3 hours. I expect to hear from him again soon, unfortunately. Then he will be up at 5:30 calling for "mama-mama-mama" to feed him, and he'll tease me by falling back asleep while nursing, only to wake up 15 minutes later for the day.

We trust that this is a phase, and honestly we're just happy that he sleeps at all! There's no way Noelle would have ever fallen asleep in her high chair. In spite of our current difficulty getting Evan to sleep, he is an amazing kid. Laughs all the time. Army crawling all over the place, and coming close to using those hands and knees. Says mama, and we're pretty sure he "gets it," which fills me with joy. Loves to watch his sister. Goes with the flow. Eats anything and everything. Peeks over his crib bumper down to Noelle's bed to laugh with her. Thinks I am hilarious. Does not seem impressed by the dogs (just like mama).

So teeth for him are a hard road, but we'll keep him! And honestly if the worst trouble he gives me is that at almost 8 months he would like to cuddle with me more than usual, by golly, I'm up for that challenge.
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What a darling picture! Poor little tyke, all tuckered out trying to get those teeth through! You are so blessed to have such a great son. Didn't know he was mobile, the real fun is just beginning. Hug him from me. LUVU

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This is the Life
on April 26 2009 at 05:19 PM by: Jaime Matthews
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Click to see a larger photo It's tough being a baby.

This was Evan's set up today as he watched Noelle and Andy wash the Jeep (and mama took a quick nap). What a life! He just relaxed and watched them playing around in the water, even taking a few sprays himself here and there.

He is such an easygoing baby, and we are really enjoying getting to know him. He thinks almost everything is funny and is laughing all the time. He rarely fusses unless he's hungry and I'm not feeding him or he's tired and I'm not putting him to bed. He goes to sleep entirely on his own, and is close to sleeping through the night regularly. At this point he goes from 7:30 PM to 5 or 6 AM probably three nights a week.

I forgot to report back on his Upper GI scan, it showed no signs of reflux. We have another appointment scheduled with the Pulmonologist, but I'm guessing we'll just call it Tracheomalacia and move on.

Today at lunch Evan was fussing a little because he was tired, and we think maybe teething a bit. Andy decided to offer him one of his big apple slices to gnaw on, and Evan loved it. So much in fact that he got so sad and cried when he dropped it and couldn't pick it back up. It was very cute. Noelle rushed to the rescue and got it back for him, she's a great big sister!

So the car is clean, Noelle is watching a movie, Evan is chilling in his crib, and we'll be having leftovers for dinner. It's a great Sunday night.
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Two Firsts
on March 26 2009 at 08:26 AM by: Jaime Matthews
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39 months old, and Noelle has finally had a haircut! She has grown increasingly more resistant to me doing anything to her hair, sometimes even refusing to let me put one single solitary hairclip in to hold her hair out of her face. Even while eating cereal and having to hold it back with her hand so as not to coat her hair in milk, she says no thanks to a hairclip. She often starts to cry at the mere sight of a brush (and my mom is thinking "haha! you got one just like you!). I told her again last night that unless she started allowing me to at least brush her hair regularly, I was going to have to cut it. So, she said "cut it right now." I gave her a bath first, then got out our haircutting scissors and chopped off about 2 inches. Easier said than done to cut a straight line on a moving target, but I think I did a pretty good job!

Our other first this week is that the little man has an ear infection. Noelle has never had one that I'm aware of, so we weren't sure what to look for. He has been pulling his ears for several weeks off and on, but I knew there were lots of factors that could make him do that. The first being "hey look! I have ears! and I'm playing with them!" Along with teething, being tired, or what I finally concluded, an infection. So we went to the doctor yesterday and sure enough, he has a mild case. A bottle of bubble gum amoxicillin should do the trick. Hopefully after this is past he will get back to his regularly scheduled sleep programming. We're beginning to think Noelle has been talking to him, telling him he's making her look bad and to knock it off with the good sleeper act. He is still a pretty sweet boy most of the time though!
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WOW! She sure was decisive about a hair cut! Looks like you did a pretty good job to me. So how did you get that hair clip in this time, sit on her? Andy used to get the ear infections all the time. The ear pulling and runny nose are pretty good indicators to watch for.

Grammy - March 26, 2009 09:10 am

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Noelle & Evan hugging...
on March 10 2009 at 08:10 PM by: Andy Matthews
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While the wife is away...I realize just how much work she does
on March 07 2009 at 03:31 PM by: Andy Matthews
File under: Noelle Jordan, Andy, Evan Joseph
So Jaime's at a women's retreat. I'm glad she's going actually. It'll be good for her. Hang time with other mamas, away from the kids and the stress of being a stay at home mom, and all that. Plus I'm looking forward to seeing just how I fare with two kids and not much experience managing both of them together.

So far they're doing quite well, semi-surprisingly. Evan's eaten twice so far, both times with very little fuss. They've both been asleep for about an hour and Noelle is just now waking up. We're roughly halfway through the weekend and I'm pretty happy so far.

We went to Dragon Park this morning because it was so beautiful. Noelle played around while Evan and I relaxed and watched her. What will the rest of the weekend hold for me and the kids? Not sure but I know I'm glad to make this sacrifice so that Jaime can relax as well.

Hope you're having a great time baby. Be safe.
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Photo Shoot
on March 02 2009 at 08:05 PM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Evan Joseph
I did a little photo shoot with the boy today, here's one of my favorites!

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4 1/2 Months Old
on February 17 2009 at 03:03 PM by: Jaime Matthews
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Click to see a larger photo Today we had Evan's 4 month check up. A little bit late due to postponing shots at his 2 month visit and having to wait 6 weeks in between. I scheduled it on a Tuesday thinking Noelle would be at school, but at her new school they had today off for President's Day since the MW group had yesterday off. So, she got to go with me to the Doctor again. She doesn't do TOO bad, but it's just much easier when I only have Evan to worry about.

Here are his stats:
Weight - 19 lbs 10 oz (off the charts)
Height - 26 1/4 inches (90th percentile)

I checked in Noelle's baby book to see how they compared, and at her 4 month visit she was 15 lb 9 oz and 26 inches tall (FOUR pounds more in just a quarter of an inch more height!).

Evan's Doctor is still looking for a possible answer about why he is so wheezy, and so she is setting up an appointment with a specialist for us. We just want to know once and for all - is he just a noisy breathing kid, or is there something we can do to help him? We've tried a lot of different things, none of which seem to work, but I'd like to know definitively that I can stop the parade of treatments and just accept my little wheezer for what he is.

He is at a fun stage right now, really starting to notice the world around him. As Andy would say, "he's starting to do stuff." That's the stage that most dads look forward to, I think. He's a super sweet boy, and we feel so blessed to have him in our family.
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Wow, he's only about 5 pounds smaller than my 2 1/2 year old! But she's not a good reference point- she's weeny.

Tiana - February 17, 2009 10:01 pm

Just re-iterating Tiana's point - that is one big kid! I think K was 18 months old before she weighed that much! :-) Maybe I need to find out what you're feeding Noelle and Evan?

Shannon - February 18, 2009 07:27 am

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The unkindest cut of all
on January 04 2009 at 10:34 PM by: Andy Matthews
File under: Evan Joseph
When Evan was born Jaime and I couldn't agree on whether to have him circumcised. She wanted it done, and I wasn't sure about it. The thought of having my boy's twig and berries fiddled with just seems wrong.

So I did a little research and it seems that there are pros and cons on both sides of the argument. Anyway, by the time we had made the decision to have the circumcision done, it was time to leave the hospital. Then we were advised to wait until we were cleared by his cardiologist.

A long story short, Evan is going in to Vanderbilt tomorrow to be circumcised. Neither of us are sure what to expect but everything we've heard from friends tells us that it's a short process (in and out in about 20-30 minutes). Here's hoping that it'll be quick, and our boy won't end up a girl.


UPDATE:
Well apparently they don't do this procedure in the clinic if the baby weighs over 16 lbs. Evan weighed in at 17.4 lbs today, so now we have to wait until he is 6 months old and have it done in the OR under general anesthesia. Poor guy!
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Tuckered Out From All This Growing!
on November 18 2008 at 11:46 AM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Evan Joseph
Click to see a larger photo Today Evan is 6 weeks old! He's starting to smile a little, adding some coos to his vocabulary, and going through his second big growth spurt. Here are his stats from his doctor's appointment today:

Weight: 13 lb 6 oz (whoa!)
Height: 23 inches

I do not trust their height measurement, considering he was 23 1/4 inches long at his cardiologist appointment 2 weeks ago. Measuring a baby's length isn't an exact science, and as Andy pointed out, you might measure too short if they won't stretch out their leg, but it's unlikely you'll measure too long. So I'm putting 23.5 inches down in the baby book (once I get one!)

Evan continues to be a good sleeper, with the exception of these growth spurt days when he feels the need to nurse every hour. I'm a lot more low key about that this time around, among other things. I have a better grasp of the concept that "this too shall pass," and so I just accept my fate of parking myself on the couch with Evan all day long, knowing it will only last a few days. Until the next growth spurt, that is! It's a small sacrifice when I think about helping my little guy grow up big and strong. I'm just happy and blessed to have him here with us.
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Shall we call him Bruiser, Bubby or Budda Belly? Wow! He really packed on the pounds (literaly)in the last 2 weeks. I can't wait to kiss those little chubby cheeks. Grammy

Grammy - November 18, 2008 02:14 pm

WOW! He's almost the same size as Timmy! We had a WIC Appt on the 18th and Timmy weighed in at 16lbs 1oz and was 26 inches long. I suppose I agree that kids don't measure right, I think he's a little longer..pesky measuring. He's just a little over 5 months by the way.

Kelly - November 22, 2008 09:44 pm

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Life With Two
on November 15 2008 at 10:14 AM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Noelle Jordan, Evan Joseph
Click to see a larger photo We're 5 weeks into life with two kids at home, and I thought I should write a bit about how it's going. For the most part, my fears of not being able to hack it have proven to be unfounded. Most days we all get along just fine, moving through our day just like Noelle and I did before Evan was with us. I actually find myself playing with Noelle more now than I did before, trying to involve her in all the things I have to do to care for Evan. Yesterday she was feeling a little clingy, and so when I had to change Evan's diaper while she was eating lunch I let her bring her plate into my bedroom so we could still be together. This made her VERY happy.

Evan really really likes being in his bed for naps, which I cannot complain about after all we went through when Noelle was small. However, it does make it a little more difficult that he isn't quite so portable. I usually end up having to get him out of bed to take Noelle to school and pick her up, and he's not a fan of that. As a rule he doesn't tend to fall asleep in the car, so if we want him to sleep in his seat while we are at church or Bible study, we have to rock the carseat. In his bed at home, he will often fall asleep on his own after being swaddled. I was amazed the first time I saw this. Babies can actually do that??

If I can time a feeding right before we go to bed, around 10, he will only wake up once around 3 and then not again until 6:30 or 7. Then he'll go back to sleep again while I eat breakfast and shower! It's an ideal schedule, which I know will probably change tomorrow, since that's what babies do. So I am getting a lot of sleep considering I have a 5 week old, and that makes a big difference in how well I can manage the two kids together. By the way, aren't they adorable?

People always ask me how Noelle is doing as a big sister, and I have to say she is great. She loves her baby brother. If he is crying in the other room she will say, "I'm coming Evan!" and run to his rescue. She sings to him when he is fussy, holds his hand while I change his diaper, and just generally does whatever she can to care for him. She is going through a bit of a rough patch behaviorally right now, but I really don't think it has much to do with Evan at all. She is almost 3 (wow!) and absolutely acts like it. Her friends the same age are going through the same things, so I am confident she'd be acting just as poorly without Evan to blame for it. Andy and I are working on a few things to try and help her through this stage with as little trauma to us all as possible. Our next step is a marble jar reward system, we'll see how it goes!

So, overall, life with two has been pretty good! We love our growing family, and feel confident now that it can handle a few more additions in the future. A friend said the other day that she wasn't sure she could handle the insanity of two vs. one, and I said honestly I don't feel any more insane than I did with just Noelle. She is currently the one giving me the most grief, after all. I know that Noelle and Evan (and their future siblings) will all take turns in that role. Along with their father. :) Being a stay at home mom is not exactly what I thought it would be, and some days I so wish I had a job I could leave the house for, but I really do love my kids and I am thankful that I have the opportunity to have this time with them. It can be a thankless job, but it's a job I am committed to, and the little moments like the one pictured above make it all worth it.
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What a great photo and update. It sounds like you all have fallen into th great routine! We can't wait to come up in 10 days and mess it all up!! :") We are soooooo looking forward to our trip. Kiss the babies and hug the daddy for us. LUVU Grammy

Grammy - November 15, 2008 05:53 pm

You mean there is hope for us? Yay! I am worn out and it's only week 3 (almost) She is worth it though. I love that shot of your babies!

Ariana - November 16, 2008 06:50 pm

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Matthews family updates...
on November 12 2008 at 01:58 PM by: Andy Matthews
File under: Noelle Jordan, Andy, Jaime, Evan Joseph
Just wanted to throw out a quick update on our family...

Jaime, Noelle, and I are finally over our respective sicknesses and feeling better. Evan is back to sleeping better. You might know that for his first three weeks, he was only waking up an average of once a night. Well, Jaime and I earned that once a night from having to deal with Noelle's sleep vagaries for over a year. Problem is that we got used to it, and then he started waking up more than once, and not going back to sleep after eating. After seeing how much he weighed at his last cardiologist appt (11.4 pounds, the chunk) we just attributed it to a growth spurt.

Some of you might know that our entire yard is (was, but I'll get to that in a minute) a disaster area. It was uneven, and bumpy, and full of weeds. We finally worked it into our budget to have the yard redone. Jaime and I hired a local company to kill our grass in both the front and side yards. They then came in with a Bobcat and leveled out the whole thing, as well as cut a spot right by the driveway which can be used as a parking area for visitors. They then seeded the area and layed down straw to help the seeds germinate. Lastly, they tore up our horrible sidewalk and replaced it with fresh, new concrete.

I've been watering it now for over 2 weeks and we're finally starting to get grass coming back in. It's like a beautiful bird who's just gone through the first stages of molting. They look terrible while it's happening, but you just know what it will look like after it's all said and done.
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Over and Out
on November 06 2008 at 12:26 PM by: Jaime Matthews
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Click to see a larger photo We had an appointment with Evan's cardiologist yesterday, and the news was better than we expected. He said he does not need to see us ever again! Evan's aorta does not show any signs of narrowing, it measures normal, and everything looks great. He said if we wanted to be extra cautious we could follow up in a year, but that he doesn't think we need to come back at all. He said to have our pediatrician monitor Evan's blood pressure and let him know if anything came up, but said he saw no reason to think his aorta would ever become a problem. Praise God! Thank you all for your prayers, we're so thankful that our little guy is in the clear. He also weighed in at 11 lb 8 oz yesterday, what a chunk!
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PTL that is Wonderful news!! You are right, he is a little chunk, but a cute one for sure. LUVU Grammy

Grammy - November 06, 2008 02:36 pm

Wow! Seriously, praise God! What a relief to you both. I'm so glad to hear that news.

Tiana - November 06, 2008 02:57 pm

AWESOME!!! God is SO good! Rejoicing w/ you guys...

lana myers - November 06, 2008 03:24 pm

Woo-hoo! We're thrilled, and we're dying to see Evan!!! Love you guys!

Jonathan - November 06, 2008 09:31 pm

Give thanks to the Lord again. What wonderful news this is. Can't wait to see you all in a couple weeks.

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Update on Evan
on October 15 2008 at 04:26 PM by: Jaime Matthews
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Click to see a larger photo We had an appointment with Evan's cardiologist this afternoon, and everything is basically the same it was at the hospital. The aorta looks like it should be narrow but it doesn't measure that way. His blood pressure in his legs should be a bit higher, but it's not too far off. So, at least for now, he still doesn't need any surgery! We were thrilled to hear that.

The doctor will have us come back in 3 weeks to do another echo and see how everything is growing. He still feels there is a possibility that it will measure narrow in the future, so we will just keep taking him in for check-ups until he proves he is a-okay. We will keep everyone updated!

In other news, Evan is already up past his birth weight. He weighed 9 lb 5 oz today. I guess he's eating well!
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good news all around :) We'll keep praying that things go well, and evan can just continue to grow :)

*sara* - October 15, 2008 03:47 pm

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New photos of Evan and family...
on October 10 2008 at 08:37 PM by: Andy Matthews
File under: Family, Evan Joseph
Just wanted everyone to know that there's some new photos of Evan's homecoming over in the Photos section.
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I am so glad you have your new baby home with you and that surgery was not required. Praise God! I love the picture of Noelle & Evan. Congratulations!!!

Phyllis Koenig - October 11, 2008 07:13 am

I'm in Sunday School Class with Diana and Dean. They have been such a blessing to our class. I wanted to extend my congratulations and let you know that our class was praying for Evan after we received word from Diana that he might need surgery. I'm elated to hear he didn't need surgery. You have a beautiful family, and I wish you the best.

Lori Gordon - October 12, 2008 04:43 am

Wonderful news that we were all hoping to hear! Welcome home Mr. Evan!

Suzanne - October 13, 2008 09:11 am

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Baby Evan is home at last...God is good!
on October 10 2008 at 02:45 PM by: Andy Matthews
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Click to see a larger photo At long last, Evan is home where he belongs. The word came down last night that he would be transferred into the normal nursery, monitored to make sure all his vitals were good, then he could go home sometime this afternoon.

The reality was that Jaime was woken up by the nurse bringing him to her room, then telling her that she was processing the paperwork for his discharge. After a frantic 2 hours of getting everything ready for him, I went to pick both of them up from the hospital and brought him home.

This was the first time Noelle had a chance to meet, and see, her new brother. She was full of questions, and other things. She wanted to give him presents, she wanted to put down the cover on his carseat so that "he could sleep" (which he was already doing), and she just wanted to hold him.

We're so glad that he's finally home with us, and we want to thank all of our friends, and family, and total strangers that took the time to pray for us. Thank you, and God Bless!
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Beautiful! What a great picture of God's mercy and grace. Noelle looks every bit the "little mother". Can't wait to get my turn at holding him and hugging Noelle. Love you. Grammy

Grammy - October 10, 2008 02:08 pm

What a sweet picture. So glad Evan is home!

Lindsey - October 10, 2008 02:11 pm

You guys make really cute kids!!

Stephanie Chapman - October 10, 2008 02:23 pm

I've been praying for you guys. I am glad you guys are home and safe. I cant wait to meet the little guy. I will keep you guys in my prayers as you get adjusted.

Major Chisholm - October 10, 2008 05:56 pm

What a great pic! We prayed our hearts out and Knew God would be victorious. Your trust in God is inspiring to us and looking forward to holding him.Congrats! love Dan and Sandy

Dan and Sandy - October 11, 2008 10:19 am

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Mama I'm comin' home...
on October 09 2008 at 08:17 PM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Evan Joseph
We got the news today that we REALLY wanted to hear. Evan's potential heart issues are at this point a non-issue!!

The ultrasound took place early this afternoon, but wasn't officially analyzed until 4 or 5 pm. Jaime and I went to the NICU to spend as much time with Evan as we could. While we were there Dr. Janssen, the Cardiologist (and Assoc. Professor no less) came to talk to us. He explained that they did all of the measurements for Evan's aorta and everything is clear. His exact words were "it looks like it should be narrower, but it's not". It couldn't be put any clearer than that. They would like Evan to come back for a check up in one week, one month, and 6 months to make sure his measurements continue to stay in the normal range.

The doctor wanted to monitor him overnight to double check some of his vitals, but they've officially moved him out of the NICU, and into the regular nursery. This means that we can take him to our room, walk around with him, and just act a little more like a normal family and less like a mom & dad visiting a sick kid.

Lots of thanks to Jaime's parents for their diligence and patience, and love for us over the last few days. Without them here, we would have had a far rougher time. Also, thanks in advance to my mom for coming up next week to help us out. It's going to be a huge blessing having the help and support of our closest family members.

Finally, thanks to all of you out there that prayed for my family in general, and my son specifically. In the words of the band P.O.D., "Without Jah, nothing". Without the love and support of "strangers in life, brothers and sisters in Christ" I feel confident that my son would be in surgery now.
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Praise the Lord! I can't wait to see pictures with Evan and his big sister! Jackson and Jeremiah loved seeing the most recent pics. We love you guys and are so glad you're getting the family time you've been waiting for!

Jonathan - October 09, 2008 07:56 pm

Ditto! PTL!! God is good, all the time! Tomorrow will be a great reunion at the Matthews home. I would love to be a fly on the wall when Noelle gets her first look at ReagonorEvan :"). Love you all, lots of kisses from Grammy comming your way.

Grammy - October 09, 2008 08:08 pm

Praise God!!!!!!!!!!

Julie - October 09, 2008 08:45 pm

I am so glad that everything is okay. You have definitely been in my prayers. Please, please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. Can't wait to spend more time getting to know Evan! P.S. Ever since we got home from the hospital, Ella has been playing with and taking care of her babies. Evan really made an impact on her :)

Heather - October 09, 2008 08:48 pm

What wonderful news!! Such lessons our family has learned over the last five years in regards to our four children (and lack there of for a while!). What a blessing to be able to look back and say, "Remember when..." Even when the "..." equaled failed fertility treaments, Charlotte's death and Evan's potential heart problems, we can look back with confidence that God is in control. May we look forward with the same confidence, no matter what the future holds for the Matthews and the Bartlings. We CAN'T WAIT to meet our nephew!!!!!!

Mindy - October 09, 2008 09:02 pm

YAY! I'm so glad for you guys. It must be such a weight off of your minds to know he's in the clear.

Ariana - October 09, 2008 09:11 pm

PRAISALUYAH! We're gonna have Evan on the prayer list for Sunday. God's got His hand on your family. Keep us posted. Chad, Kelly & Family

Chad Garinger - October 09, 2008 10:53 pm

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On second thought...
on October 08 2008 at 04:45 PM by: Jaime Matthews
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Click to see a larger photo Not 5 minutes after I called Andy to tell him Evan had been cleared to leave the NICU, I got a call that he wouldn't be able to be released because they didn't have the staff in the newborn nursery to take in anymore babies. We were told we'd have to wait until the next shift to see if they'd have enough nurses at that time.

Another 5 minutes after that, the NICU Doctor came to my room and apologized for the craziness, but said that the cardiologist had looked at the echo and taken some measurements, and felt that there is likely an issue after all. She explained it to me, but I was so confused that it was hard to take it all in. Within a 30 minute time frame, I went from thinking Evan would be in my room tonight to thinking he might need surgery on his aorta.

I am not a doctor, so I don't know exactly what the situation is or how to perfectly explain it, but here are the basics. While we are all in the womb, there is a special blood vessel called the ductus arteriosus that allows blood to bypass the lungs while we are developing and not using them. After birth, that vessel closes as the lungs start to take in air. Evan has patent ductus arteriosus, or PDA, which basically means that it is taking longer to close. As it is closing, however, the cardiologist is concerned about a coarctation of the aorta, or a narrowing. Based on the echo he knows that the aorta which is supposed to take on the work of the ductus arteriosus is definitely narrow, but until the PDA closes completely he won't know how much. The PDA closing could cause it to narrow even farther than it already is.

So, they will do another echo tomorrow to see if the PDA has closed, and if so, to see how narrow the aorta is. If it stays the same, they may or may not have to do surgery to repair it, as it is kind of on the borderline. If it gets any narrower, they will have to do surgery. The doctor said it is a surgery done through the side and would take 1-2 weeks in the hospital to recover from. At this point all we can do is love on Evan, pray for his PDA and aorta, and wait to see the echo.

Again, sorry for all the confusion, we were just as confused as all of you! I'm glad to take our friends and family along on the ride, we need you with us!
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Continuing to pray for you all!!! Thanks for the updates.

Misty - October 08, 2008 06:55 pm

I'm on my knees praying.

Natalie - October 08, 2008 07:16 pm

Jaime and Andy - Congratulations on your adorable baby boy! Tiana and I are praying for you and Evan in this tough time. Our nephew had a similar cardiac problem, also discovered right after he was born (5 years ago - he's doing great now). Although I'm not a pediatrician or a cardiologist, I would be happy to help talk with you about this any time. (Your description and figure are entirely right). I work at Vanderbilt, so I can try to stop by sometime tomorrow and see how you are doing, grab you a meal, or whatever would be helpful. You can also call me at five hundred 5769. Take care.

Chris Lee - October 08, 2008 07:30 pm

we're praying..thanks for taking the time to keep us updated.

*sara* - October 08, 2008 07:37 pm

Jaime, We're praying too. I've been there and it's scary. Take care!

Leah Garrett - October 08, 2008 07:46 pm

praying for your little boy!

Poppy - October 08, 2008 07:50 pm

Hey Jaime and Andy, we are praying as a family for evan and for both of you..for wisdom and knowledge for the doctors and nurses and for God's hand on his little heart. Jael also prayed for him tonight. Love, Aimee and Matt

aimee - October 08, 2008 07:58 pm

we are praying for sweet Evan that the Lord would take perfect care of him (and you!!).

Lindsey - October 08, 2008 07:58 pm

We are praying so hard for y'all and little Evan!

hunter and mimi - October 08, 2008 08:06 pm

We can't begin to tell you how much love and how many prayers we're sending your way. Jackson really picks up on the concern in our faces and our voices, and he was visibly concerned tonight. He can't wait to meet his new cousin. We love you and baby Evan!

Jonathan, Mindy, Jackson, and Jeremiah - October 08, 2008 08:08 pm

We love you so much. We're praying... xoxo Sarah PS I am here for whatever you need. Please call me for anything, I've got plenty of time and space if you need someone to watch Noelle or the dogs.

Sarah, Chad and the boys - October 08, 2008 08:31 pm

We love you so much. We're praying... xoxo Sarah PS I am here for whatever you need. Please call me for anything, I've got plenty of time and space if you need someone to watch Noelle or the dogs.

Sarah, Chad and the boys - October 08, 2008 08:31 pm

We are praying for Evan, Andy, Noel, and you. With all the Koenigs on your side everything will go God's way.

Ruby - October 08, 2008 09:26 pm

I am a friend of Joan Matthews. I am praying for your little guy. But have faith he will be fine, it is almost better if they do the surgery as apposed to finding out later there are more complacations because of it, so have faith God is looking over him and everything will be fine. Plus you and your son have the power of prayer in your corner, I have passed this on to everyone I know who prayers.

Melissa - October 09, 2008 06:23 am

I am praying for you guys! I used to work in the Pediatric ICU and with the "heart" babies. Just know that if Evan will need surgery...it is one of the most common they perform...and one the quickest to recover from. Besides that, Evan is in God's hands and He is the ultimate healer. Love to all 4 of you!

Tara Cunningham-Birk - October 09, 2008 07:54 am

Jaime, please know that Bryan and I are praying, all throughout the day as the Lord brings Evan and you guys to mind. Please give an update soon.

Lana - October 09, 2008 11:27 am

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NICU
on October 08 2008 at 12:22 PM by: Jaime Matthews
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Andy mentioned in his post yesterday that Evan is in the NICU, and unfortunately he is still there today! When he was first born, he had trouble keeping his color and a bit of labored breathing. They took him to the nursery to do a quick check on him, and soon after brought him to the NICU to give him oxygen and do a few tests.

Tests for infection came back negative, but they put him on IV antibiotics for 48 hours as a precaution, so that will go through Thursday early morning. He was only on oxygen for a few hours, but he is still not breathing like we want him to all the time. He has had two chest x-rays, and both came back not 100% clear but also not with anything to be concerned about. He is also having trouble learning to eat, since it involves breathing and sucking all at the same time. It's hard not being able to feed him myself, although I've been able to pump some and give him a few bottles in the NICU.

This morning Andy and I were able to be in there with him while the doctors were doing rounds, and as they checked him over they heard an "extra heart sound." The doctor noticed it yesterday but thought it sounded typical for a newborn. Today, however, she thought it sounded more like a congenital heart defect, and so they have ordered an echo to be done this afternoon. She said about 50% of the time these things heal on their own, and in most other cases it is just something to monitor as opposed to something he would need surgery for. No use speculating, though, as we'll hopefully hear back from them later today with the results.

I won't say that I'm nervous, because I know he is in good hands, not just here at Vanderbilt but also because he belongs to the Lord. No mama likes to hear that something might be wrong with her baby, even if it something that might have no real effect on their long term health. I hate that he's in the NICU instead of here with me, and that there is a chance I won't get to bring him home with me tomorrow. I definitely want to ask for all of your prayers for my little guy, that the echo will either reveal nothing or something that will heal on its own. That his breathing clears and he learns how to eat better. That he will get to come home with me. We will keep you all posted!

And if you haven't seen all the pictures yet, make sure to check them out. He is a beautiful little boy.

UPDATE
I just got off the phone with Jaime who informed me that they've decided that everything looks good and they're working on the paperwork to move him in to the regular nursery. This means quicker access to him, he can come and sleep in Jaime's room, and she can also breastfeed him herself. Thank you for all the prayers and support from all of you.
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Jamie, I am praying for you and our BS put you on the prayer list this morning! Please let me know if there is anything I can do.. It is always so encouraging to hear your strength in God and His care for your children. Praying! Misty

Misty - October 08, 2008 12:20 pm

Jaime, I will be in prayer for Evan and put him our prayer at choir. God does have him in his hands, you can't ask for a better healer! We love you all.

Carol - October 08, 2008 12:40 pm

Sorry to hear of possible complications! Jackson said today, so sweetly, "I want to see baby Evan." We had just bought some goodies for him : ) Jeremiah thought you were going to be at our house! We'll prayerfully await more news.

Mindy - October 08, 2008 12:45 pm

Thinking of you and praying for your peace of mind... I really admire your steadfastness through this, and I'm with you -- in all things, we can see Jesus, when we look (or at least open our eyes)! So I'm praying that you'll the Infinite will reveal itself/himself/herself/whatever to you through all this. Do keep us posted -- so nice to get an update straight from the baby mama! :) That little dude has an awesome mouth. And nose. Heck, he just has great facial features in general -- as in, he actually looks like a person, not a mushy baby face.

Kristin D. - October 08, 2008 01:09 pm

From one NICU mom to another, it's hard to see them in there, but they do come out. Levi was a NICU baby for 3 1/2 weeks & now he's everywhere. We'll be praying that Evan is able to depart the NICU soon. I know it's no fun for anyone.

Steph, Joel, Levi & Baby N - October 08, 2008 01:28 pm

Congratulations to you all! We love your choice of names! We'll be praying for his health.

Trena - October 08, 2008 07:18 pm

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Welcome my son...the world will be yours some day.
on October 07 2008 at 07:43 AM by: Andy Matthews
File under: Evan Joseph
Click to see a larger photo Let the world take notice, today my family celebrates the birth of my son Evan Joseph. He was born at 4:12am on October 7, 2008, weighs 9 pounds, 4 ounces and is in fine health. He?s being monitored for some minor breathing related issues due to his rapid delivery but other than that he's doing well.

Jaime thought that she felt some contractions last night around 9pm but didn't think all that much of it. But then around 10 when they started to get more regular we started paying closer attention. About 11:30 we timed them out and they looked to be about 4-5 minutes apart. Jaime still wasn't all that concerned so we went to sleep, pretty sure that we'd be woken up soon.

ABout 1:15 Jaime woke me up saying that it might be time to start making movements towards heading to the hospital. We put her in a warm bath to make sure that this was the real thing, and to help ease her discomfort. By the time the bath was done, we were at 3 minutes between contractions. It was time to head to Vanderbilt.

We checked in and were immediately taken to our room, we waited MAYBE 10 minutes total. Checked into the room at 2:56 and met our midwife on call about 15 minutes later. After a quick exam, we were informed that Jaime was already dilated to 8cm. Our midwife, SOheyl, suggested that if she could break Jaime's water, this birth would kick in to overdrive. We decided to go for it and Evan was born not quite an hour and a half later. There were moments that Jaime regretted the decision to go for a natural birth, but she was amazing, and there wasn't time for much else anyway!

As I mentioned, the NICU team felt that his breathing needed to be monitored so he's under observation there until further notice. We know he is being well taken care of there, and we look forward to

We're currently in Vanderbilt, room 4124 for anyone who might want to drop in and say hi. Just make sure to knock!
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A son! What an amazing blessing to have your new infant in your arms - healthy and strong! I know that Jaime has been so ready for a while. And here he is.

Renee Johnson - October 07, 2008 07:15 am

WELCOME TO THIS WORLD, Evan!! We can't wait to meet you! Jaime is a hero. Hold on tight... the thrill ride that is your life just entered a whole new level!! We love you!

Mindy - October 07, 2008 07:18 am

Thank you God for this wonderful gift! So happy to hear of Evan Joseph's arrival. Way to go Jaime!!!! Glad to hear everyone is doing well and I can't wait to meet him.

Mindy Anderson - October 07, 2008 07:22 am

Yeah! Congratulations! I couldn't be happier for you! Thankful that everyone is doing well. Natalie

Natalie - October 07, 2008 07:24 am

CONGRATS!!! Guys!!! I cant wait to meet him. Glad everyone is healthy. Much love to the both of you!!! Oh and if you have a third you have to wear that shirt again. Major

Major Chisholm - October 07, 2008 07:26 am

Jaime, Andy and Noelle, Congrats on the arrival of little Evan! We are so excited for your family. May God continue to be your God of wisdom as you parent your second blessing! Debra, Jeff and Anna Rose

Debra and Jeff - October 07, 2008 07:27 am

Hey congrats! Looks like it was the real thing! Glad things went smoothly, and we'll be praying that your transition to a family of four is a fun and exciting adventure!!

*sara* - October 07, 2008 07:55 am

Congratulations! I'll be praying for Evan Joseph's breathing. Can't wait to meet him.

Amy Ware - October 07, 2008 08:03 am

YEAH! I can't wait to meet this little man! Mom, way to go! Dad, you must be proud! I look forward to our little ones growing up together! Love ya all four!

Shannon and Brady Peikert - October 07, 2008 08:23 am

Congratulations guys!! Let the games begin! :)

Wes - October 07, 2008 08:30 am

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! Uncanny how much he looks like Noelle. If you two start having a hard time telling them apart, well, that will just be freaky. And: congratulations, Jaime! I am in awe. Somehow, my crampage earlier this week seems so trivial... :)

Kristin D. - October 07, 2008 08:37 am

Congratulations!!! I love the pix!! Praise the Lord!!! He is beautiful!! Happy for you and looking forward to meeting him!!

Angie Mullett - October 07, 2008 09:19 am

I'm still grinning like a proud Grammy should! From what I can see of him he is cutie, just look at those little cheeks. Kiss Evan for Grammy and tell him I'll see him soon. Love to all, hugs for Jaime! Grammy

Grammy - October 07, 2008 10:52 am

Awesome!!! I'm so excited! I can't wait to meet him. I didn't know Jaime was going for a natural delivery. James - you are my hero. We just took our childbirth class on Saturday, and I think I'll be calling for an epidural. :) Boys are fun - enjoy!

Steph, Joel, Levi & Baby N - October 07, 2008 10:53 am

Beautiful baby boy! Congratulations - and I'm so impressed on that natural delivery, Jaime. Can't wait to hear your story! Will pray for an easy transition home. :)

Suzanne - October 07, 2008 11:09 am

Beautiful baby boy! Congratulations - and I'm so impressed on that natural delivery, Jaime. Can't wait to hear your story! Will pray for an easy transition home. :)

Suzanne - October 07, 2008 11:09 am

Wow Jaime! You're a trooper - natural delivery of a 9 lb baby. I think you're my new hero :) Congratulations! We're so, so happy for you guys!

Tiana - October 07, 2008 11:44 am

Congrats! I'm so excited for you both, and for Noelle! I can't wait to meet Evan. Love you all!

Kelly - October 07, 2008 12:07 pm

Thanks. You can never believe how much this means to me. Love to you all.

Papa - October 07, 2008 01:00 pm

Thanks. You can never believe how much this means to me. Love to you all.

Papa - October 07, 2008 01:00 pm

CONGRATS!! Such fun news to get in my inbox today! Can't wait for Evan and Anna Wells to meet - how do y'all feel about arranged marraiges? :)

Jennie - October 07, 2008 01:21 pm

Congratulations....and welcome Evan! We thank God for you and count your life as one of His many blessings. We can't wait to meet you in person. Much love.

The Carters - October 07, 2008 01:38 pm

Congratulations!

Joan - October 07, 2008 06:48 pm

What a Great day for yall! Congratulations, You did good naming him too. Nashville just got more popular today than it already was. Uncle Joe

Uncle Joe - October 07, 2008 06:53 pm

Beautiful Story! Can't wait to see you all and see Noel's face as she looks into her baby brother's eyes! Blessings! Praising God with you!

Sherri Goettel - October 07, 2008 08:17 pm

Beautiful! I am so happy for you two. Go Jamie!

Ariana - October 08, 2008 03:27 pm

Praise the Lord! God is good and His love endures forever! I am so relieved that Evan is coming home! I am so excited for you all and am looking forward to hearing more about his progress! Oh, and CONGRATULATIONS!!! Jaime way to push him out and no drugs--WOW!! That is amazing!!

Angie Mullett - October 09, 2008 10:28 pm

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5 weeks to go!
on September 05 2008 at 08:05 PM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Noelle Jordan, Jaime, Evan Joseph
We are just 5 weeks away from "ReagEv's" due date, and at this moment I wish it were today. Well, maybe not today, because Andy is out of town at a conference and he definitely needs to be here. But when I think about another 5 weeks of this baby pushing me around from the inside, making it difficult for me to do the things I need to do, and causing me to sit down on a display of dog food at the store (as happened tonight) because I feel nauseated, it seems like a long time.

On the other hand, when I think we haven't yet pulled the car seat or any of the baby clothes out, we haven't bought any diapers, we haven't washed the bassinet cover, we haven't really done ANYTHING, I am glad we have at least a few more weeks to get ready! And it's not like it's going to be any easier on the other side. I'll just have different aches and pains, and I'll be sitting on the dog food because I'm so dang tired. And as for the things I need to do? My list will be trimmed down to one thing for a while - take care of my kiddos.

I've started thinking about how it will be to have two, and what impact it will have on my relationship with Noelle. We're struggling at times right now, going back and forth between "you're the best Mommy ever" and "I don't want to talk to you." I read an article that said moms and toddlers argue on average 20 times per hour, and as many as 55. No wonder I'm so exhausted! Noelle is already asking us to treat her like a baby in some ways, even as far as asking for the "other part" of her bed, meaning the part that makes it a crib. We were anticipating that possibility after the baby comes, but not before. She is full of surprises.

My hopes for the next 5 weeks are:
- Get our kitchen finished (should be Sept 15)
- Have a maid come out and do a pre-baby full house cleaning
- Obviously get all the baby stuff out and ready
- Get as much sleep as possible
- Make sure Andy packs his bag BEFORE I go into labor, unlike last time

I'm sure I'll think of a lot more, but right now I think I'll focus on that one about sleep...
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Let me know if you need any help. I'll be glad to help wash clothes or get things clean and ready for the baby (like you can ever really be ready. ha!). Natalie

Natalie - September 05, 2008 07:37 pm

I'm here at the conference thinking of you babes. Sorry you're not feeling good.

Andy Matthews - September 06, 2008 09:24 am

Jackson has been saying things like, "Oh no I'm not" after we warn him about a punishment he will receive if continues a behavior. The other day, I said, "Yes you will and I don't argue with 4 year olds." He said, "Oh yes you do!" ARGH! He also goes from "You're my best mama in the whole wide world" to "YOU'RE NOT MY BEST MAMA AT ALL!!" I just try to tell him that he's my best Jackson even when he drives me crazy : ) Thinking of you and praying for you in these final weeks!

Mindy - September 08, 2008 07:17 pm

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The Great Name Debate
on July 26 2008 at 11:20 AM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Evan Joseph
Click to see a larger photo The polls are finally closed, and we've come to a decision on what to name this baby! We have a really hard time agreeing on names. We had picked Noelle's name by the time I was 25 weeks, this time I am 28 weeks, so not too shabby.

If the baby is a girl, she will be named Reagan Olivia. Reagan is a name we liked, and it means "little ruler." Olivia means "peace," so hopefully those two will balance each other out! We got the name Olivia from a character on Law and Order: SVU. I was named after the Bionic Woman, Noelle's middle name Jordan is from the main character on Crossing Jordan, so we're keeping up with the tv name theme.

If the baby is a boy, he will be named Evan Joseph. Evan made it to our top 3 without us knowing the meaning, but when I discovered it meant "God is gracious" (as compared to one of our names that meant crooked nose) I was sold. Joseph means "God will add," which is exactly what he is doing in our family and we feel blessed. Also, Andy's dad's middle name is Joe, so it's a nod to him as well.

So we won't know for sure until sometime around October 13, but at least we will be ready! I figure if I can't know the gender, I'd at least like to know the names. Just 11 weeks to go! Here's a picture of what I look like at 28 weeks.
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Thanks

Ron - August 05, 2008 01:55 pm

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It's a...
on May 13 2008 at 03:30 PM by: Jaime Matthews
File under: Family, Evan Joseph
Click to see a larger photo ...healthy baby! We won't know the gender until October, but we had our ultrasound today and everything looks great. We had some anxiety going in, for sure, but I had prayed that I would feel the baby moving this morning prior to the appointment and I absolutely did. This is definitely a big weight lifted off our shoulders. The second our ultrasound tech turned on the machine, we could see the baby's strong heartbeat and lots of movement.

The only possible snag (and it's a VERY minor one) is that I might have a low-lying placenta. This often corrects itself as the pregnancy progresses, but if it doesn't it requires delivery via c-section. The radiologist will have to look at the ultrasound to know for sure whether I have this, and if they say I do it will just mean they'll do another ultrasound early in the third trimester to monitor it.

Check out the pictures of our baby and one I took of myself this morning right here!

Thank you all for your continued prayers,

Andy and Jaime
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Looks like this baby might be a thumb sucker!!

Mom B - May 13, 2008 07:04 pm

I sure hope so. Anything so that the new baby can self-soothe. I'd rather deal with breaking the child of the habit later than have to do it all on our own from the beginning.

Andy Matthews - May 15, 2008 11:11 am

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